From: vhia.latoja@gmail.com
Sent: 30/09/2012, 7:42 pm
To: boodogay.bjb 007@blogger .com
Subject: How to reach deep into a man's heart.
If you feel like you've been beating your head against the wall trying to get your man to commit to you,I can help.
Even if you've tried everything and maybe you felt him move closer to you once,but then everything went back to the stalement way it was before,its not too late!
Men are easy,if he wants you he wants you and you dont have to work hard at all to make that happen,but then,he'll often do the absolute MINIMUM he has to do to keep you around.
*He'll try to keep you at "girlfreind"level as long as he acan without commitment.
*He'll hang onto his "freedom" as long as he can without making a commitment.
*He'll say he needs "time"
*He'll says he's not ready.
If you play hard to get "he'll suddenly snap to"and work amzingly hard to get back to your wgood grace" JUST UNTIL he can "slack off again"and STILL keeps you around for a while longer.
He'll be the one begging you for a commitment when you do this..
If your man is pulling away or he's just stating without moving the relationship forward into real,lifelong commitment,you can turn that around right now.
Everyone of us looking for a deep heartfelt connection,even your man.He may not know how to do it.
If you want your man to feel that connection with you.STRONGLY that he'll feel compelled to sew you up in a commitment part...
.....you'll find exactly the help you need to inspire him to want to get you to commit to HIM.
Men also champs at drawing things out.
Its always just "not a good time in his life"
so what's really happening with him?
Why is he being so immoveable?
Why is he not ready especially in his mid 30's or 40's?
There's a simple answer and its about two things:
ATTRACTION and CONNECTION.
And the tough part of us about it is into not something you can figure out.
Its just not something that works in the mind actually,it works for a man totally or a feeling level just the way it does for us.
But there's a huge different in how a man's romantic response gets triggered and the way our romantic response gets triggered..
We are all attracts both men and women in ways that seem really "mysterious"
for us,it could be the first time we lay eyes on a man,and he looks like someone we once loved,or he's wearing something that triggers a memory,or he smells like a bit like our father.(i know yuck but its true.)
its all about that are beneath the surface,having to do with energy and vibes,many things that makes us who we are and how we reach to each other.
Man are attracted to us off the bat and that attraction usually sticks but just the attraction level.
For us women,attraction can happen in some other ways that makes us different.
It could happen after knowing a man or a while and discovering qualities about him that attracts us deeply.
We let down our guard and show him who we really are and how we really feel.
And then every moment we do this,every moment we allow ourselves to be more vulnerable and open with him,if he continues to love us,treat us well,listen to us,support us and initiate more and more contact and more and more commitment,then we become even more intensely attracted to him.
Its as though our attraction to him is based more on out attraction to love for ourselves more than anything in particular about him.
This puts the lie to the whole thing about having things in common and other kinds of personality matching.
So this is the clear first step to getting him commit to love yourself MORE than you love him.
Please keep learning back,opening your heart and loving yourself,and know Im right here for you.: )
Lady Vhia.
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