Five Tips on How to Be Attractive to Men

By Ashton Rogers
Here's a fun topic to discuss: how to be attractive to men in such a way that when you're apart, he can't think of anything else but you. Let's get right to it.

1. It can all begin with a little wink. You can almost instantaneously attract a man with a certain look followed by a subtle wink. Emphasis on subtle. Make him wonder if he really saw it or not. Either way, he knows he's gotta come find out what you're all about. He'll think about that wink for a long time, long after you've parted company.

2. The pleasant tones of your voice. Use a slow, calm, controlled tone when you speak with him. Speak clearly and softly, varying your pitch only slightly. I don't mean to be monotone, but a steady tone to your voice, paired with the right words, will ring in his ears for weeks, making him want more. He'll wonder about the way you speak, trying to figure out what it is that makes you different.

3. The power of smell. The statement "follow your nose" has more significance than you might think. The association between smell and memory is incredibly strong and is a powerful arrow in your quiver of how to be attractive to men. You may walk by a bakery and smell something sweet that takes you back to a visit to your grandma's house 25 years ago. Scent has an amazing ability to stick in your brain and make you think of a certain setting long after you've left. Use this to your advantage. Use a perfume that is unique, one that will remind him of you anytime he smells anything close to it.

4.Laugh with ease, but don't go overboard. Ask your friends about your laughter if they haven't told you it. Is it fun to hear? Is it over the top? Is it too suppressed? Most of the time the way we laugh is subconscious, but it is definitely something to think about and practice if necessary. It should be pleasant to hear, accompanied by a look of joy on your face. Let it come out clearly and strong, but cut it off before it's outworn its welcome.

5. The unforgettable surprise. If it's appropriate based on where you are in your relationship you can pull out the big guns and do something for him that neither of you will ever forget. Have you found out what his favorite sports team is? Or one of the first items on his "bucket list." Or, maybe something simpler, like what his perfect birthday wish would consist of. Then have some fun and make it happen! Surprise with with tickets to a game, a destination, or another event. Bake him his favorite dish his mom used to make that he hasn't had in years. Or roll out the red carpet and give him a day of special treatment where he gets whatever he wants. Even though you're the one doing the planning and the work, it can definitely be fun for the both of you and create an unforgettable memory that the two of you will share for a lifetime.
You don't have to wait around helplessly wondering how to be attractive to men. Along with what we've already talked about there are more things you can do to get him to realize he'll never be happy without you. Learn right now what you can do that will make him beg you to spend the rest of your life with him.

By Ashton Rogers
Here's a fun topic to discuss: how to be attractive to men in such a way that when you're apart, he can't think of anything else but you. Let's get right to it.

1. It can all begin with a little wink. You can almost instantaneously attract a man with a certain look followed by a subtle wink. Emphasis on subtle. Make him wonder if he really saw it or not. Either way, he knows he's gotta come find out what you're all about. He'll think about that wink for a long time, long after you've parted company.

2. The pleasant tones of your voice. Use a slow, calm, controlled tone when you speak with him. Speak clearly and softly, varying your pitch only slightly. I don't mean to be monotone, but a steady tone to your voice, paired with the right words, will ring in his ears for weeks, making him want more. He'll wonder about the way you speak, trying to figure out what it is that makes you different.

3. The power of smell. The statement "follow your nose" has more significance than you might think. The association between smell and memory is incredibly strong and is a powerful arrow in your quiver of how to be attractive to men. You may walk by a bakery and smell something sweet that takes you back to a visit to your grandma's house 25 years ago. Scent has an amazing ability to stick in your brain and make you think of a certain setting long after you've left. Use this to your advantage. Use a perfume that is unique, one that will remind him of you anytime he smells anything close to it.

4.Laugh with ease, but don't go overboard. Ask your friends about your laughter if they haven't told you it. Is it fun to hear? Is it over the top? Is it too suppressed? Most of the time the way we laugh is subconscious, but it is definitely something to think about and practice if necessary. It should be pleasant to hear, accompanied by a look of joy on your face. Let it come out clearly and strong, but cut it off before it's outworn its welcome.

5. The unforgettable surprise. If it's appropriate based on where you are in your relationship you can pull out the big guns and do something for him that neither of you will ever forget. Have you found out what his favorite sports team is? Or one of the first items on his "bucket list." Or, maybe something simpler, like what his perfect birthday wish would consist of. Then have some fun and make it happen! Surprise with with tickets to a game, a destination, or another event. Bake him his favorite dish his mom used to make that he hasn't had in years. Or roll out the red carpet and give him a day of special treatment where he gets whatever he wants. Even though you're the one doing the planning and the work, it can definitely be fun for the both of you and create an unforgettable memory that the two of you will share for a lifetime.
You don't have to wait around helplessly wondering how to be attractive to men. Along with what we've already talked about there are more things you can do to get him to realize he'll never be happy without you. Learn right now what you can do that will make him beg you to spend the rest of your life with him.

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Make A Man Commit - Rock Solid Techniques To Make A Man Commit To You!

By Kristina Hoffman
If you've experienced trouble in making men commit in the past, this is something you must read at all costs. If you don't know how to make a man commit, don't worry. If you want to make a man commit, you need to have certain set of skills. And these skills can be learned by you. It just requires your patience and attention.

Here are the rock solid techniques to make a man commit to you...

Never talk about commitment - The first step to make a man commit is to not talk about commitment. Many women make the mistake of talking about commitment and future plans too early in the relationship. This turns men off. You need to play it slow. Get him to talk about it first. Just focus on the moment and stop worrying.

Wait until the two of you feel a connection with each other (takes at least six months). Once you feel the connection, isolate all your emotions. Don't tell him the way you feel. Tell him what your desires are and what you'd like him to do. Be as logical as possible when letting him know about commitment.

Develop more intimacy - Develop more intimacy between the two of you. Talk and spend quality time together. Make sure that you go out at least once a week. During your dates, make sure that you make him talk. Get him to talk about his personal interests, his desires and his goals. Listen to whatever he says without interrupting.

The more you make him talk, the more close you'll get. Make sure that the two of you have an amazing time when you go out. Don't just go to the same dinners. Go to the movie. Attend a friend's wedding. Go to a church. Mix it up. If you want to make him commit, take him to places where he can notice signs of commitment (wedding, anniversaries, and baby showers).

Truly appreciate him - Men like and love women who appreciate them. Make him feel that you are a valuable woman by genuinely appreciating him for who he does. Throw compliments at him. But don't do it regularly as he will lose its value.

At the same time, play hard to get. Subtly let him know that you won't be around for long if he thinks of making you wait. That's how you make him commit. By being hard to get and being an amazing woman in his eyes.

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5 Ways to Tell If He's Falling in Love With You

By Darlene Peltz
There he was, across the parking lot, walking toward me. Our eyes locked and my heart went crazy. Immediately, without a doubt, I "knew." He's the one! It was love at first sight!

This is how many women fall in love. You just know, it's like magic, and you never want this feeling to end. But then, reality kicks in and you have to look at it from his point of view - did he feel that magic jolt, that OMG moment when he "knew" you are the one for him?

It takes two be a couple - how do you go from that magic moment, to forever? There are at least a couple of things that have to be thought about. We all want love and we want it to be forever - we need to feel love in return so lets look at a few ways you can tell if he's falling in love with you, too.

-Knowing a person for several months and coming to know how they react to you and the world around you may be step number one. Does he encourage your hobbies - do you collect pewter elephants and he brings you one from each of his travels. Does he just love hockey but you prefer baseball - are you compelled to buy two tickets to see his favorite team play ( he can take a friend if you prefer not to go). It's about caring - doing nice things for each other.

-Loving a person through thick 'n thin, through good times and bad, through happy times and sad might be step number two. His company is going through hard times, he is offered a severance package to go quietly but now he has no income. She has to look after an aging parent and must take time away from you several times a week. He got a promotion with his firm but it means he has to relocate, with a big raise. She makes more money than you do and she is willing to foot the cost for a vacation in the sun - with you. This is about - will you love me if or when - don't be fooled into thinking that these things don't apply. In one version or another they all do.

-Knowing if you two are together because you "fit" is one of the hardest questions to answer and works for step number three. When you are with each other do you have fun, laugh at the same things and feel excited when sharing intimate moments. Is your partnership happy and calm - you make each other feel loved and want to be together most of the time but you also feel safe and need to spend time with friends and the trust is there to allow that to happen.

-Being able to talk with your partner about anything and everything openly without fear of criticism or anger is step number four. Couples that have this working for them will feel good about who they are as people and that they matter and their feelings are important. Trusting each other in this way brings you closer as a couple. You know that what you discuss with each other is for your ears alone and neither of you will break that trust. You feel safe.

-When you ask to have something done for you does your partner respond even when what you ask might not be right up there with his top ten important things in life? When he needs a ride home because his truck broke down do you do everything in your power to pick him up at the right time. If you ask him to go to a feng shui party with you and what he really wants to do is meet the guys for a cold beer and watch the ball game, does he go with you? This would be about proof - and don't we all need that sometime, just to feel that we are important and loved.

Working at your love relationships might be the hardest work of all. Anyone that tells you that your relationship should just work is crazy and is probably not in a very good one at that. You will have to put your time in or it won't continue to work - there are problems needing solving, there are disagreements needing a compromise, and there are the everyday things that bring stress along for the ride.

In other words, how committed are you to making your relationship the most important aspect of your life? And yes, love at first sight does happen, and yes, it can last forever - but not without a lot of loving and creative effort from both partners. Have faith in each other and make it work.

"Faith can move mountains, but don't be surprised if God hands you a shovel." Author unknown.

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