I took four steps and she fell

My fingers itchy, here comes an inspiration. I will send you to another realm, your contest my entertainment. When my source holds supreme, brag not I. What I write now, my soul speaks.
She was pretty, very pretty. She modified my minimum requirements of a lady. She was quiet…but deadly. Where Did I meet her? In a friends house actually, a meeting ground…we had ‘em a big project at hand. We needed female participation and she was invited by our host. Now this room was filled with a lot of guys…about six if I remember correctly. Well, it was annoying because this guys were just carried away by the girls present, about four of them. We had serious things to deliberate upon but things seemed to be going anticlockwise.
Now, my first approach, call it skill; I ignored all I mean all the girls. While other guys were busy working their socks up trying to woo these damsels, there was I fiddling with my computer! Now let me explain this…you see women with their way of thinking, when approached by a man instinctively feel the man is trying to mate with her. So by ignoring them, they wondered in their minds “what is this guy feeling like, am I not attractive enough”, women are the curious type, they want to know everything! The fact that I ignored them actually created an attention on me and since they were four girls present, you can imagine the competition.
What happened next was quite interesting; they all were looking for avenues to strike a conversation with me. Second approach, call it skill; I played hard to get. Yes, hard to get! Women love this, they love fighting for love, they love the unknown, and suspense bewitches them. Now, not that I was rude, repulsive or redundant, I was actually funny, unserious but serious and happy, I was just myself. What was I doing? Bewitching them! I also wanted the competition; I wanted the most confident girl. I love confident girls, they are usually intelligent. Then she made a brilliant move…what did she do?
Simple, she called me outside just to ask if I had the phone number of a childhood friend of hers that I dated some years back. I took out my phone scrolled to the name and number…handed the phone to her. She copied the number then she typed her number on my phone and dialed. She then stored the respective numbers on both phones. WOW! I got her number without asking. But there was bad news, she was dating my friend, our host. I became a suspect.
Now, there was something about me she enjoyed, I was strange and different, not like most of the guys stalking her. I was very strict, I let her enjoy herself but I do not entertain excesses. This is approach number three, call it skill. Women love a man that takes control and has the aura of power radiating from him, it gives them a sense of security and comfortability. She began to get addicted to me. Every day she would travel seven kilometers to be with me.
Now this was not easy for me, for it seemed that I snatched another guy’s girl, but did I really do anything? I hear somebody saying am a demon, hahaha!!! Approach number four, call it skill, I have a personal constitution and I abide by it at all times. Indeed I am a senator. Women, as far as I am concerned enjoy it when they are told what to do, “they love being controlled”. Don’t get me wrong I wasn’t bossy, but a little bit arrogant mixed with being funny but serious, women can’t have enough of that…now things began to really get close, she desired something, something I couldn’t wait to give her!
Now she wanted me to make love to her…I had the power. It took me four effortless steps to get to this level. What happened next, I will post you on another day. You may have your own ways by which you seduce women, but I do mine mentally. It cost me nothing really…just the understanding of female psychology. I don’t use this skills all the time, in fact I rarely use them, maybe that’s why I seem to be using this medium to share these skills with you, so that you could also benefit from them. They work 100%. But no money back guarantee! Visit this site often, I will be sharing the secrets of true players! Stay blessed.
Boodogay Gao Dein.

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How To Tease (How To Speak Woman)

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When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand
when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds...
then took it away saying, “No hand holding this early”, as
if it were her idea... then at lunch, I put out my hand for
her to take it and then when she went to take it, I moved
it before she touched me... then did it again... and again
saying, “No, really...”
Finally, after the meal was finished, I reached out for
her hand, and she wouldn’t take mine because I had
teased her so much. So I actually grabbed her hand and
held it and massaged it. This was teasing and
teasing...and when she finally gave up, I gave it to her.
Then, when I gave her a hug later on, she kissed me
on the cheek or neck a couple of times, and I accused her
of kissing me a lot, etc. (The idea is that she’s into me
and she’s the aggressor.) One part of this is me doing
something (holding her hand) and then accusing her of
doing it (“no hand holding this early”).

This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and
flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to
women it’s magic.
Also, some women really get intrigued if you ‘figure
them out’ early on in the game and have their number...
and then just ‘laugh at how cute they are’ when they do
things. This gets them all freaked out, as they feel like
you’re in control, and they don’t know what to do next...
like you know all the games they’re playing and won’t fall
for any of their old tricks... this makes them nervous as
they don’t have any POWER OR AMMO!
They love this, as men are hardly ever in control. And
they secretly want someone who is. (It’s VERY important
not to become the ‘friend/therapist’ with this
information... and start kissing their ass! The idea is to
use it to bust on them and not to be understanding.)
I also tell women early on that I think they’ll make a
nice ‘friend’.
It’s funny to see how the friendship frame works with
them, because this gets them thinking often for the first
time, “Wow, maybe I just found a man who is smarter
than me, knows my little games, and has higher
standards than ME for once... and now he’s talking about
being ‘just friends’! Oh no! Doesn’t he like me? Doesn’t he
want me like all the other guys?” A key here is to always
keep them guessing... never get too into them or they’ll
get right into their old games, etc.
Another interesting observation that I’ve made is that
women only understand CODE, not direct language.
Little boys tease little girls when they’re 8, and
women still love it when they’re 28 and 48. I like to find
something about them that they’re just a little insecure
about and make fun of it in a way makes them wonder
whether or not I’m serious.

The way I see it, women are like the Enigma
machines that German U-boats used in World War II.
These machines were able to transmit messages to each
other, but also able to change the codes they used each
time. Women are much more interested in giving and
getting subtle hints.
Telling a woman, “I really like you”, won’t be as
effective as saying, “You really like me” in a teasing way.
Do you understand?
I speak in metaphor and story, talk about feelings and
longings, speak code, and try to never speak directly.
Let me give you a few more examples:
If you want to have sex with a woman, you could say,
“Hey, why don’t we have sex?” Go ahead and try that one
sometime and let me know how it works for you.
Or, you could try this... Next time you’re alone with a
new woman, stand up, take her hand, and pull her up to
her feet. Then give her a hug, let go, and sit back down.
After she sits again, say, “I just wanted to hug you.”
Later hug her again and cuddle with her. While cuddling,
smell her neck and tell her how good she smells... and
don’t stop. Within a few minutes she’ll be telling you how
hot she’s getting.
Two different paths to the same outcome… It’s just
that one happens to work about a hundred times better
than the other.

Men like to go out hoping to ‘get laid’. Women like the
idea of being swept away by the moment… especially
when it’s a taboo thing and they shouldn’t be doing it,
etc. The more unplanned things seem, the better. For
instance, if she happens to wind up in your bedroom and
you happen to be massaging her, smelling her, etc. it’s
seen as ‘meant to be’ or something that happened in an
unplanned romantic way, and therefore a good thing to
get swept away by.
If you want to increase your chances of success with
women, create scenarios that lead to these situations.
Ask yourself, “What situation would facilitate the outcome
that I’m looking for naturally?” Remember that women
like to be swept away by the moment; they don’t like to
think that they’re being used.
Another fun thing I do to demonstrate to women that
I’m savvy and know the language is to interpret gestures
and expressions and then comment back as if they had
said something.
So for instance, if a woman looks at someone walking
by, then wrinkles up her nose and gets that ‘Gross’ look
on her face, I might respond with, “That’s what I was
thinking.”
Get it? I’m pretending like she actually said, “Gross”
to me.
Or if a woman takes my hand, I might say, “Oh,
really?”
I’m pretending like she said, “I’m attracted to you.”
Women are very expressive with their body language
and facial expressions, but they often express themselves
in very subtle ways.

If you can tune into these little cues and then respond
with fun remarks that show you’re clued in, you’ll be
rewarded. (Notice: Do not start ACTING like a woman
now that you know this tip. This technique is to be used
sparingly and only to let a woman ‘know that you know’
and not as your main approach when interacting with
women. Many men make the mistake of learning how
women act and then IMITATING them all the time. This is
not what you want to do, trust me.)

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Money is not the main factor in attracting women.

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A lot of guys are also convinced that having a lot of money is necessary for

success with women, especially if you don’t have great looks.

This is very untrue.

Women have evolved to feel attraction for men with power.

Money is a form of power, but depending on how it is used, it could even

make you seem inferior to other men!

Women are attracted to men who seem to hold the promise of awesome

genes that can be passed on in perpetuity. “Awesome genes” mean genes

that can create offspring that will eventually attract the best. This is an endless cycle, for the progeny then carry on the legacy of sexiness, attracting the best

sex partners in every generation.

A man who makes a lot of money seems to be a man whose genes have

enabled him to figure out how to do this. Those same genes may likely

enable his children to have the same ability, a legacy of his DNA.

50 don’t be a pathetic guy. You should be passionate about your

ambitions and dreams and goals, and you should go for them with

everything you’ve got. Passion, backed up by a serious plan, is sexy.

Most of what holds people back is fear. That is why fear is so unsexy,

especially for a man. Fear means being held down from all you can be.

What is considered sexy to women is all about survival and power.

That’s why money is sexy to a certain degree.

But remember it is ONLY ONE SOURCE OF POWER, and an indirect

one at that. It is very possible that the money will be gone and/or was

acquired in a way that has nothing to do with his ability.

“The fact that many women marry for money means NOTHING in terms

of their attraction. Many women marry a man they don’t care about for

money and security, but will have sex and even children with the man they

truly desire. When a man uses money to impress a woman, it signals to the

woman that he has nothing else sexy about him.”

So don’t be so thrilled about money on its own.

Henry Kissinger, the famous American Secretary of State, once said

“Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac”. Yet when wealthy men use their wealth

in a way that shows they believe they have nothing else, (kissing up to a

woman by buying her things all the time, etc.) these men DESTROY THEIR

ATTRACTIVENESS TO WOMEN.

“It is not so much a man’s actual possession of wealth in and of itself that

has any sex appeal, but rather it is his power to amass riches.”

And certainly, spending your money on a woman does not mean you have

any power, especially if she knows you DON’T have a lot of money.

Then it just means you are kissing her ass (SIGN OF WEAKNESS, NOT

POWER) and giving up your hard-earned cash for her exploitative ass.

Even a billionaire, if he shows WEAKNESS, or any ass-kissing

tendencies, he will appear powerless in her mind, extremely NONmasculine,

and she will NOT SEXUALLY DESIRE HIM.

So as far as money goes, DO YOUR BEST to make a lot of cash, but all

that really matters to most women is that you are not limited in your life

because of a lack of money.

In other words, if working at the checkout at McDonald’s is your grand

vision of the future, you won’t seem sexy, to say the least.

There’s no good or bad here, just simple evolution. If women evolved to

like men with no power in any form, be it looks, wealth, courage, or any

other power, women would then have children who would starve to death

from no food or money, or their children would have no qualities to

eventually attract sex mates. In essence, these women would have their

genes wiped out from the genetic pool.

If you don’t have money, you should be in the process of making it.

A good rule of thumb is to pursue something that you love and market it

on a massive scale. I know that is an oversimplification, but it’s true.

You can lie to women about your economic standing, and usually get

them into bed with the lie, but why not just really be a man and do

something about this to make a respectable amount of money so you won’t

have to lie. That way, you can be totally congruent since you will know it’s

true, and you will have even more success with women.

Women find men without ambition to be mentally weak, for these men

seem to possess a lack of power even in the future.

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What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women

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Introduction

It’s taken me a long time to figure out all of the

things that you’re about learn. I’ve spent years on this

stuff.

This weblog is meant to be used like an encyclopedia.

It’s meant to be a REFERENCE, not a novel.

The best way to use it is to read and find all of the

parts that you like and note all of the ideas, skills, and

techniques that you would like to work on and improve.

Then take those sections and either write them down or

print them so you can review them and practice.

Success with women isn’t like success with learning to

use a light switch. Success with women is more like success with

learning to play a musical instrument. It takes practice.

At first, none of it makes any sense.                                                       Sometimes it seems as though all of your practice isn’t making a difference.

But if you keep at it, eventually you’ll be playing

songs. And then you’ll be writing songs. Next thing you

know, you’ve become a master.

So take this weblog and use it as a workbook. Come

back to it often. Reread the parts that you want to learn

and integrate. And most importantly, DON’T STOP

READING UNTIL YOU’RE DOING IT.

Many people will make the mistake of reading this weblog

and then say, “I know that stuff” before they’ve

mastered the information through their experience.

Don’t make this mistake yourself.

Keep reading and practicing and using it until you

HAVE IT DOWN.

And do me a favor. E-mail me your ideas, comments, and

complaints. I want to know what you think.

You can e-mail me at:

boodogay@gmail.com

Now let’s have some fun!

 

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